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<p style="text-align: center;"><strong style="font-size: 120%;">The Han Shi (寒食) Festival (The Cold Food Festival)</strong></p>
<p>Each year, in China's Shan Xi province, on the day before the <a href="http://kaixin.com.au/chinese-folk-customs/2010/4/3/qing-ming-jie.html" target="_blank">Qingming Festival</a>, which falls on the 105th day after Winter Solstice (April 5 by the Gregorian calendar, except in leap years), people celebrate The Cold Food Festival, also known as the Han Shi (寒食) Festival. For three consecutive days people put out their cooking fire and eat cold food to commemorate Jie Zi Tui (介子推), a famous loyal and filial son in Chinese history. <br /><br />There is a sad story about him, which has been&nbsp; passed on from generation to generation.<br /><br /><span class="full-image-float-left ssNonEditable"><img src="http://kaixin.com.au/storage/Chong-er.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1322473807860" alt="" /></span>Legend has it that in China's Spring and Autumn period Chong'er (重耳), an intelligent and lenient prince of Jin (晋，a state), was persecuted by his step mother who wanted her own son to inherit the throne. He had to flee and live in the other states for 19 years. In that time he endured many hardships, he was very close to death several times. Once, he and his attendants travelled to Wei (卫，a state) where a thief stole all of their baggage. After, he was so hungry that he had to beg a farmer for food, but he got nothing but ridicule.<br /><br />In order to save the prince, Jie Zhi Tui, one of the five most loyal attendants of Chong'er, cut the flesh from his thigh and offered it to the prince for sustenance. Unaware that it was human flesh, Chong'er ate it and survived. (Today, wee regard the act of Jie Zi Tui as very cruel and unacceptable, even in ancient China, such sacrifice was controversial). <br /><br />However, the self-sacrifice of Jie Zi Tui saved Chong'er's life, which is why many Confucian scholars regarded Jie Zhi Tui as the example of a loyal and filial son.<br /><br /><span class="full-image-float-left ssNonEditable"><img style="width: 150px;" src="http://kaixin.com.au/storage/cold-food-festival01.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1322473962367" alt="" /></span>Later, when Chong'er became Duke Wen of Jin (晋文公), he generously rewarded those who had once helped him in his hard time. Jie Zi Tui was offered high office. However Jie Zi Tui refused. He declared that all he did was follow the will of the gods, it was not for any reward. He thought those who pursued rewards as hypocrites, and was ashamed to work with them. He went into hiding in the remote mountains with his mother, Jie Zi Tui<br /><br />The offer of high office was refused several times and Chong'er became angry at Jie Zi Tui. He ordered the mountains to be burned down in order to force Jie Zi Tui out of hiding. Unfortunately, Jie Zi Tui did not give in and the after the fire had burned out of control or three days, it was discovered it had killed Jie Zi Tui and his mother under a willow.<br /><br />Chong'er was full of remorse and named the mountain where Jie Zi Tui went into hiding, Jie Mountain. It was ordered that each year during these three days the setting of fire was forbidden and all food was to be consumed cold. <br /><br />Therefore the Festival is named the Han Shi (寒食) Festival (the Cold Food Festival).<br /><br />To remind himself of his tragic mistake, Chong'er had his craftsmen make a pair of shoes with the burnt trunk of the willow. Often, fondling the shoes he sighed "How sad you are! The thing under my feet!" (悲乎，足下). <br /><br />Since then, z&uacute; xi&agrave; (足下) has become an honorific title, 足下 (z&uacute;xi&agrave;): for my friend (used in letters)<br /><br /><br />There are other stories about source of the Cold Food Festival. One of them is that the Cold Food Festival started from the ancient tradition of starting a fire to herald each new season by rubbing two pieces of wood together. Before the new fire was officially lit no one is allowed to light a fire. This was an important event during that time.<br /><br />The Cold Food Festival is now Chinese traditional <a href="http://kaixin.com.au/chinese-folk-customs/2010/4/3/qing-ming-jie.html" target="_blank">holiday</a>, celebrated in China and the nearby nations like Korea and Vietnam. People go to the tombs of their ancestors to sweep them, sacrifice to their forebears, and have a picnic. <br /><br /><span class="full-image-float-left ssNonEditable"><img style="width: 150px;" src="http://kaixin.com.au/storage/EggArt.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1322509228386" alt="" /></span>In Chinese Tang Dynasty (AD 618&ndash;907), it was also a time for indulging in diversions. Ladies amused themselves on swings. Palace women, as well as new graduates of the civil service examinations, played football (probably leather filled with feathers). Tug-of-war and polo were also part of the entertainment. The Cold Food Festival had something of the character of Easter in the West because it was the custom in the Tang to dye chicken and duck eggs. <br /><br />Today, during Cold Food Festival, people of the Jin South region eat agar-agar jelly, cold noodles and steamed rice cake. People of Jin North region eat fried food. Some people in some mountain area eat chow mein.</p>
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<p><em>The ancient dhow stirred in the soft morning breeze. Like a sleepy lion, it began to move through the water, snuffling about the other boats on the harbour; some scurrying, some at anchor, some darting before a brief gust of wind. The lateen sails a bustling panorama of blood-red and sun-bleached white.<br /><br />Aft, the woman's eyes searched the skyline, drinking in the architecture of Stone Town, the heart of Zanzibar; its jagged, cluttered silhouette so familiar, so much a part of her soul.<br /><br />Abruptly, her eyes ceased their restless searching, jagged by an invisible hook, transfixed by the grand buildings on the northern shore, Beit-al-Ajaib, the House of Wonders, Palace to the great Sultan of Zanzibar. The distinctive architecture captured in the tropical light: coconut white outlined by contrasting shadow plays of pepper black.<br /><br />A smile, ever so slight, started to play on the edge of her mouth then disappeared. A memory that should have been fond instantly turned to sharp unbearable pain. Her eyes hardened and moved on.<br /><br />Without warning the captain threw the rudder over. Stumbling, the woman barked her shin on a wooden box, a rough-hewn coffin. She recoiled, knocking over an untidy stack of cane baskets. Imprisoned in the baskets, rusty cockerels, their scruffy heads straining through the latticework, snapped at her, cried out to her; their raucous din overwhelming her, drowning her.<br /><br />Dimly, through the fog of noise, the strident swearing of the sailors in Kiswahili seeped into her conscious. Understanding, she smiled mirthlessly.<br /><br />The coffin had been carelessly stowed, a chore, rather than a labour of respect or love.</em></p>
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<p>&ldquo;Hello, who are you? I am Oliver, is Edward at home?&rdquo;<br /><br />The words were spoken by a tall, impeccably dressed young man as he rushed into Edward&rsquo;s flat shaking off surplus water and calling for whisky while shoving his umbrella into a stand. It was a blustery, grey, bitterly cold February afternoon in the heart of London. He brushed a curl of soft auburn hair from his forehead and smiled charmingly.<br /><br />Susan laughed, her hazel eyes dancing with the exhilaration of the new. &ldquo;Yes, he is having a bath. I think he is trying to get warm. I&rsquo;m Susan, Susan Carey, his sister.&rdquo;<br /><br />&ldquo;Ahhh yes, from Australia. How do you do?&rdquo; said Sir Oliver, smiling broadly and offering his hand. He noticed the laughter in her eyes, and the depth, particularly the depth, intensified by jade flecks that made them striking and alluring. &ldquo;So, you have arrived, good trip I trust.&rdquo;<br /><br />&ldquo;I am very well thank you, and yes, it was a good trip,&rdquo; replied Susan.<br /><br />He laughed and glanced at the sitting room, &ldquo;whisky?&rdquo;<br /><br />&ldquo;Oh, I&rsquo;m sorry, please come in&hellip;&hellip;.. that was silly of me, after all, it is your flat.&rdquo;<br /><br />Oliver smiled and gestured for Susan to lead the way. He followed her into the room, and after helping himself to a generous portion of whisky, walked over to the fire.<br /><br />Shortly after, Edward, wrapped in a huge ruby-coloured dressing gown and wiping soap from his ear strode into the room. He was of similar age to Oliver, late twenties, well built, if slightly podgy, with dark auburn hair and a full moustache. Susan looked up and smiled to herself, she could see now where he had picked up some of his new mannerisms.<br /><br />&ldquo;Thought I could hear voices. I see you two have met, no need for introductions then.&rdquo; <br /><br />As he was speaking, Edward walked to the side table and grabbed a whisky decanter by the neck. He glanced at Oliver who nodded. A long finger snaked into one of the tumblers followed by the distinctive clink of crystal. He swept the decanter off the table and carried it to where Oliver was sitting. After pouring the whisky, he sank into a lounge chair and sipped from his glass, enjoying the warm glow as it spread through his body.<br /><br />Suddenly he sat up exclaiming, &ldquo;Sorry sis, would you like something to drink?&rdquo;<br /><br />&ldquo;Kind of you to remember, but no thank you, and yes, Oliver has already inquired.&rdquo;<br /><br />Edward nodded and sank back into his lounge chair.<br /><br />They chatted, tentatively at first, getting to know one another. Edward had not seen Susan for two years and was unsure how his sister would take his new relationship. Oliver was intrigued by Susan. An attractive, self-assured young lady of high intelligence with a degree was a rare find. And, as fate would have it, she was also a trained and experienced teacher. He suggested a picnic at Oxford, which was met with ready acquiescence. Arrangements were made for the following Sunday.<br /><br />&ldquo;I&rsquo;ll see if the Rolls is available,&rdquo; mused Oliver. &ldquo;Must ring father, haven&rsquo;t spoken to him in ages.&rdquo;<br /><br />Oliver, Sir Oliver Marchmaine, was an unaffected young man of intense intelligence who saw life as a great adventure to be lived to the full. He was also unyieldingly loyal to his country, England, which is why he had joined Military Intelligence on leaving Oxford.<br /><br />It was 1910 and Europe was stirring. It was a time full of interest, intrigue and danger. The European chessboard was becoming increasingly complex, the moves more subtle. A time when an unexpected move or feint could have profound consequences.</p>
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<p>Regaining her balance, the woman&rsquo;s eyes were drawn, hesitantly at first, resisting back to Beit-al-Ajaib. She wondered if it was still the same. Still the same centre of power and intrigue that had been so much a part of her life all those years before; that had defined her life.<br /><br />She remembered those first few moments, remembered standing in the foyer of the palace, .&hellip;&hellip;&hellip;&hellip; remembered the breathtakingly beautiful Persian tapestry ........<br /><br />The sea breeze stirred her clothes. She smiled a little sadly, and in her mind the tapestry gently swayed. Two small apparitions ran giggling up the stairs: two small exquisitely rich burkas disappearing along the first floor landing. Childish squeals of mischief and joy left in the air.......<br /><br />&ldquo;Move to seaward, you accused of Allah! Move!&rdquo;<br /><br />Her thoughts were clawed back to the dhow, the captain crashing the tiller over to avoid another boat on the crowded harbour. The woman instinctively ducked her head to avoid the heavy boom as it swung over her, the rusty cockerels squawked their raucous indignation, their heads straining through the latticework, relentless. <br /><br />The collision avoided, the dhow continued on its way. The cacophony dying down to the occasional command by the captain or the cry of a seagull.</p>
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<p>&nbsp; &hellip;&hellip;&hellip;&hellip;. laughing and giggling, girls of seven or eight. A door on the first floor slammed and all sounds of them disappeared. Silence. The woman smiled. She could see herself, a young woman, dressed plainly, unselfconsciously, her sexuality tantalisingly just out of reach, hidden beneath the thin veil of her clothing. She remembered standing alone in the foyer, looking around, perplexed. Asim came through a door to the left of the tapestry.<br /><br />&ldquo;Salaam.&rdquo;<br /><br />The woman started and looked around. Then, realising, was cold again. Alone again. Alone, rocking to and fro to the rythm of the sea. Alone, beside a rough-hewn coffin.<br /><br /></p>
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<p>As the most important part of the wedding celebration, each family brings a length of silk and these are tied together to make a concentric knot. This is called the 'leading scarf'.</p>
<p>The bridgroom hangs one end of the scarf on his hand plate, while the bride holds the other end in her hand. The groom walks backwards, guiding the bride fact to face, out of the room.</p>
<p>After paying homage to the ancestors in the <em>jia miao</em>, the bride walks backwards to the nuptial chamber. With their arms supported by the maids, the bride and the groom try to be the first to salute each other. After this, they sit on the edge of the bed, the bride on the left and the groom on the right.</p>
<p>Women sprinkle coins and all kinds of dried fruit and nuts around them. This is called <em>sa zhang</em>.</p>
<p>People bind together a srand of the groom's hair on the left side of his head with that of the bride on the right side. Both families offer bolts of silk, hairpins and other decorations for the head. This is called<em> he ji</em>.</p>
<p>After, two tiny cups are tied together with a colourful silk string and the newlyweds drink the wine together. This is called 'drinking <em>jiao bei </em>wine'. The cups and the decorated head-dresses are then thrown under the bed.</p>
<p>If it happens that one cup faces upwards and the other downwards, it is regarded as auspicious an the wedding guests will congratulate them.</p>
<p>Meng Yuan lao (Song Dynasty): Records of dreams in the East Capital</p>
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<p><em>bai tang</em>: the most important ritual in the wedding, with the bride and the groom saluting Heaven and Earth, both parents and each other.</p>
<p><em>sa zhang</em>: a wedding folk custom. People throw colourful dried fruit and grains at the newlyweds to extend their good wishes and congratulations. It is also intended to drive away evil spirits.</p>
<p><em>Concentric Knot</em>: a knot tied into concentric rings with silk threads. It symolizes faithrul love.</p>
<p><em>Hand Plate</em> - <em>Hu</em>: a narrow plaque. Officials in feudal times carried it to record things during an audience with the Emperor. It was used at weddings a decoration for the bridegroom.</p>
<p><em>Jia Miao</em>: of the family temple, a place where the family offers sacrifices to the ancestors.</p>
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<p style="text-align: center;"><em><span style="font-size: 120%;"> <span style="color: #757676;">'A maharaja&rsquo;s ruby cast on a Persian carpet by the blackest of hands'</span> </span></em></p>
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<p><em>The ancient dhow stirred in the soft morning breeze. Like a sleepy lion, it began to move through the water, snuffling about the other boats on the harbour; some scurrying, some at anchor, some darting before a brief gust of wind. The lateen sails a bustling panorama of blood-red and sun-bleached white.<br /><br />Aft, the woman's eyes searched the skyline, drinking in the architecture of Stone Town, the heart of Zanzibar; its jagged, cluttered silhouette so familiar, so much a part of her soul.<br /><br />Abruptly, her eyes ceased their restless searching, jagged by an invisible hook, transfixed by the grand buildings on the northern shore, Beit-al-Ajaib, the House of Wonders, Palace to the great Sultan of Zanzibar. The distinctive architecture captured in the tropical light: coconut white outlined by contrasting shadow plays of pepper black.<br /><br />A smile, ever so slight, started to play on the edge of her mouth then disappeared. A memory that should have been fond instantly turned to sharp unbearable pain. Her eyes hardened and moved on.<br /><br />Without warning the captain threw the rudder over. Stumbling, the woman barked her shin on a wooden box, a rough-hewn coffin. She recoiled, knocking over an untidy stack of cane baskets. Imprisoned in the baskets, rusty cockerels, their scruffy heads straining through the latticework, snapped at her, cried out to her; their raucous din overwhelming her, drowning her.<br /><br />Dimly, through the fog of noise, the strident swearing of the sailors in Kiswahili seeped into her conscious. Understanding, she smiled mirthlessly.<br /><br />The coffin had been carelessly stowed, a chore, rather than a labour of respect or love.</em></p>
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<p>&ldquo;Hello, who are you? I am Oliver, is Edward at home?&rdquo;<br /><br />The words were spoken by a tall, impeccably dressed young man as he rushed into Edward&rsquo;s flat shaking off surplus water and calling for whisky while shoving his umbrella into a stand. It was a blustery, grey, bitterly cold February afternoon in the heart of London. He brushed a curl of soft auburn hair from his forehead and smiled charmingly.<br /><br />Susan laughed, her hazel eyes dancing with the exhilaration of the new. &ldquo;Yes, he is having a bath. I think he is trying to get warm. I&rsquo;m Susan, Susan Carey, his sister.&rdquo;<br /><br />&ldquo;Ahhh yes, from Australia. How do you do?&rdquo; said Sir Oliver, smiling broadly and offering his hand. He noticed the laughter in her eyes, and the depth, particularly the depth, intensified by jade flecks that made them striking and alluring. &ldquo;So, you have arrived, good trip I trust.&rdquo;<br /><br />&ldquo;I am very well thank you, and yes, it was a good trip,&rdquo; replied Susan.<br /><br />He laughed and glanced at the sitting room, &ldquo;whisky?&rdquo;<br /><br />&ldquo;Oh, I&rsquo;m sorry, please come in&hellip;&hellip;.. that was silly of me, after all, it is your flat.&rdquo;<br /><br />Oliver smiled and gestured for Susan to lead the way. He followed her into the room, and after helping himself to a generous portion of whisky, walked over to the fire.<br /><br />Shortly after, Edward, wrapped in a huge ruby-coloured dressing gown and wiping soap from his ear strode into the room. He was of similar age to Oliver, late twenties, well built, if slightly podgy, with dark auburn hair and a full moustache. Susan looked up and smiled to herself, she could see now where he had picked up some of his new mannerisms.<br /><br />&ldquo;Thought I could hear voices. I see you two have met, no need for introductions then.&rdquo; <br /><br />As he was speaking, Edward walked to the side table and grabbed a whisky decanter by the neck. He glanced at Oliver who nodded. A long finger snaked into one of the tumblers followed by the distinctive clink of crystal. He swept the decanter off the table and carried it to where Oliver was sitting. After pouring the whisky, he sank into a lounge chair and sipped from his glass, enjoying the warm glow as it spread through his body.<br /><br />Suddenly he sat up exclaiming, &ldquo;Sorry sis, would you like something to drink?&rdquo;<br /><br />&ldquo;Kind of you to remember, but no thank you, and yes, Oliver has already inquired.&rdquo;<br /><br />Edward nodded and sank back into his lounge chair.<br /><br />They chatted, tentatively at first, getting to know one another. Edward had not seen Susan for two years and was unsure how his sister would take his new relationship. Oliver was intrigued by Susan. An attractive, self-assured young lady of high intelligence with a degree was a rare find. And, as fate would have it, she was also a trained and experienced teacher. He suggested a picnic at Oxford, which was met with ready acquiescence. Arrangements were made for the following Sunday.<br /><br />&ldquo;I&rsquo;ll see if the Rolls is available,&rdquo; mused Oliver. &ldquo;Must ring father, haven&rsquo;t spoken to him in ages.&rdquo;<br /><br />Oliver, Sir Oliver Marchmaine, was an unaffected young man of intense intelligence who saw life as a great adventure to be lived to the full. He was also unyieldingly loyal to his country, England, which is why he had joined Military Intelligence on leaving Oxford.<br /><br />It was 1910 and Europe was stirring. It was a time full of interest, intrigue and danger. The European chessboard was becoming increasingly complex, the moves more subtle. A time when an unexpected move or feint could have profound consequences.</p>
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<p>Regaining her balance, the woman&rsquo;s eyes were drawn, hesitantly at first, resisting back to Beit-al-Ajaib. She wondered if it was still the same. Still the same centre of power and intrigue that had been so much a part of her life all those years before; that had defined her life.<br /><br />She remembered those first few moments, remembered standing in the foyer of the palace, .&hellip;&hellip;&hellip;&hellip; remembered the breathtakingly beautiful Persian tapestry ........<br /><br />The sea breeze stirred her clothes. She smiled a little sadly, and in her mind the tapestry gently swayed. Two small apparitions ran giggling up the stairs: two small exquisitely rich burkas disappearing along the first floor landing. Childish squeals of mischief and joy left in the air.......<br /><br />&ldquo;Move to seaward, you accused of Allah! Move!&rdquo;<br /><br />Her thoughts were clawed back to the dhow, the captain crashing the tiller over to avoid another boat on the crowded harbour. The woman instinctively ducked her head to avoid the heavy boom as it swung over her, the rusty cockerels squawked their raucous indignation, their heads straining through the latticework, relentless. <br /><br />The collision avoided, the dhow continued on its way. The cacophony dying down to the occasional command by the captain or the cry of a seagull.</p>
<p>The woman's thoughts returned to Beit-al-Ajaib</p>
<p>&nbsp; &hellip;&hellip;&hellip;&hellip;. laughing and giggling, girls of seven or eight. A door on the first floor slammed and all sounds of them disappeared. Silence. The woman smiled. She could see herself, a young woman, dressed plainly, unselfconsciously, her sexuality tantalisingly just out of reach, hidden beneath the thin veil of her clothing. She remembered standing alone in the foyer, looking around, perplexed. Asim came through a door to the left of the tapestry.<br /><br />&ldquo;Salaam.&rdquo;<br /><br />The woman started and looked around. Then, realising, was cold again. Alone again. Alone, rocking to and fro to the rythm of the sea. Alone, beside a rough-hewn coffin.<br /><br /></p>
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<p>Passing over bags for an offspring or passing over mats is a marital right which was practised in all parts of China in old times. The groom's family would cover the doorway with felt rugs, straw mats or cloth bags. The bride stepped on these things as she entered the house. Her feet were not allowed to touch the bare ground, otherwise it was regarded as inauspicious. This custom developed from mat passing in the Tang Dynasty. This rite signifies the production of offspring generation after generation</p>
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<p>Nowadays at weddings when the bridal sedan chair reaches the gate, people spread felt mats in the gateway. They pass the mats on which the bride has walked successively to the front from behind for her to walk along. This custom started in the Tang Dynasty.</p>
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<p>Now people in Hangzhou popularly use rice-bags to replace felt mats. This custom is called 'passing over the&nbsp; bags', or 'passing over bags after bags'. The world 'bags' here serves as a pun for the word 'generations'</p>
<p>Jin Zhi (Qing Dynasty): The Buxiadai Writings.</p>
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<p><span style="font-size: 120%;">代</span><em> d&agrave;i </em>- replace, replacement (of person or generation); era, generation<br /><br /><span style="font-size: 120%;">袋</span> <em>d&agrave;i</em> - pocket, bag, sack, pouch <br /><br /><em>dai</em> is pronounced 'dye'</p>
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<p style="text-align: center;"><em><span style="font-size: 120%;"> <span style="color: #757676;">'A maharaja&rsquo;s ruby cast on a Persian carpet by the blackest of hands'</span> </span></em></p>
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<p><em>The ancient dhow stirred in the soft morning breeze. Like a sleepy lion, it began to move through the water, snuffling about the other boats on the harbour; some scurrying, some at anchor, some darting before a brief gust of wind. The lateen sails a bustling panorama of blood-red and sun-bleached white.<br /><br />Aft, the woman's eyes searched the skyline, drinking in the architecture of Stone Town, the heart of Zanzibar; its jagged, cluttered silhouette so familiar, so much a part of her soul.<br /><br />Abruptly, her eyes ceased their restless searching, jagged by an invisible hook, transfixed by the grand buildings on the northern shore, Beit-al-Ajaib, the House of Wonders, Palace to the great Sultan of Zanzibar. The distinctive architecture captured in the tropical light: coconut white outlined by contrasting shadow plays of pepper black.<br /><br />A smile, ever so slight, started to play on the edge of her mouth then disappeared. A memory that should have been fond instantly turned to sharp unbearable pain. Her eyes hardened and moved on.<br /><br />Without warning the captain threw the rudder over. Stumbling, the woman barked her shin on a wooden box, a rough-hewn coffin. She recoiled, knocking over an untidy stack of cane baskets. Imprisoned in the baskets, rusty cockerels, their scruffy heads straining through the latticework, snapped at her, cried out to her; their raucous din overwhelming her, drowning her.<br /><br />Dimly, through the fog of noise, the strident swearing of the sailors in Kiswahili seeped into her conscious. Understanding, she smiled mirthlessly.<br /><br />The coffin had been carelessly stowed, a chore, rather than a labour of respect or love.</em></p>
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<p>&ldquo;Hello, who are you? I am Oliver, is Edward at home?&rdquo;<br /><br />The words were spoken by a tall, impeccably dressed young man as he rushed into Edward&rsquo;s flat shaking off surplus water and calling for whisky while shoving his umbrella into a stand. It was a blustery, grey, bitterly cold February afternoon in the heart of London. He brushed a curl of soft auburn hair from his forehead and smiled charmingly.<br /><br />Susan laughed, her hazel eyes dancing with the exhilaration of the new. &ldquo;Yes, he is having a bath. I think he is trying to get warm. I&rsquo;m Susan, Susan Carey, his sister.&rdquo;<br /><br />&ldquo;Ahhh yes, from Australia. How do you do?&rdquo; said Sir Oliver, smiling broadly and offering his hand. He noticed the laughter in her eyes, and the depth, particularly the depth, intensified by jade flecks that made them striking and alluring. &ldquo;So, you have arrived, good trip I trust.&rdquo;<br /><br />&ldquo;I am very well thank you, and yes, it was a good trip,&rdquo; replied Susan.<br /><br />He laughed and glanced at the sitting room, &ldquo;whisky?&rdquo;<br /><br />&ldquo;Oh, I&rsquo;m sorry, please come in&hellip;&hellip;.. that was silly of me, after all, it is your flat.&rdquo;<br /><br />Oliver smiled and gestured for Susan to lead the way. He followed her into the room, and after helping himself to a generous portion of whisky, walked over to the fire.<br /><br />Shortly after, Edward, wrapped in a huge ruby-coloured dressing gown and wiping soap from his ear strode into the room. He was of similar age to Oliver, late twenties, well built, if slightly podgy, with dark auburn hair and a full moustache. Susan looked up and smiled to herself, she could see now where he had picked up some of his new mannerisms.<br /><br />&ldquo;Thought I could hear voices. I see you two have met, no need for introductions then.&rdquo; <br /><br />As he was speaking, Edward walked to the side table and grabbed a whisky decanter by the neck. He glanced at Oliver who nodded. A long finger snaked into one of the tumblers followed by the distinctive clink of crystal. He swept the decanter off the table and carried it to where Oliver was sitting. After pouring the whisky, he sank into a lounge chair and sipped from his glass, enjoying the warm glow as it spread through his body.<br /><br />Suddenly he sat up exclaiming, &ldquo;Sorry sis, would you like something to drink?&rdquo;<br /><br />&ldquo;Kind of you to remember, but no thank you, and yes, Oliver has already inquired.&rdquo;<br /><br />Edward nodded and sank back into his lounge chair.<br /><br />They chatted, tentatively at first, getting to know one another. Edward had not seen Susan for two years and was unsure how his sister would take his new relationship. Oliver was intrigued by Susan. An attractive, self-assured young lady of high intelligence with a degree was a rare find. And, as fate would have it, she was also a trained and experienced teacher. He suggested a picnic at Oxford, which was met with ready acquiescence. Arrangements were made for the following Sunday.<br /><br />&ldquo;I&rsquo;ll see if the Rolls is available,&rdquo; mused Oliver. &ldquo;Must ring father, haven&rsquo;t spoken to him in ages.&rdquo;<br /><br />Oliver, Sir Oliver Marchmaine, was an unaffected young man of intense intelligence who saw life as a great adventure to be lived to the full. He was also unyieldingly loyal to his country, England, which is why he had joined Military Intelligence on leaving Oxford.<br /><br />It was 1910 and Europe was stirring. It was a time full of interest, intrigue and danger. The European chessboard was becoming increasingly complex, the moves more subtle. A time when an unexpected move or feint could have profound consequences.</p>
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<p>Regaining her balance, the woman&rsquo;s eyes were drawn, hesitantly at first, resisting back to Beit-al-Ajaib. She wondered if it was still the same. Still the same centre of power and intrigue that had been so much a part of her life all those years before; that had defined her life.<br /><br />She remembered those first few moments, remembered standing in the foyer of the palace, .&hellip;&hellip;&hellip;&hellip; remembered the breathtakingly beautiful Persian tapestry ........<br /><br />The sea breeze stirred her clothes. She smiled a little sadly, and in her mind the tapestry gently swayed. Two small apparitions ran giggling up the stairs: two small exquisitely rich burkas disappearing along the first floor landing. Childish squeals of mischief and joy left in the air.......<br /><br />&ldquo;Move to seaward, you accused of Allah! Move!&rdquo;<br /><br />Her thoughts were clawed back to the dhow, the captain crashing the tiller over to avoid another boat on the crowded harbour. The woman instinctively ducked her head to avoid the heavy boom as it swung over her, the rusty cockerels squawked their raucous indignation, their heads straining through the latticework, relentless. <br /><br />The collision avoided, the dhow continued on its way. The cacophony dying down to the occasional command by the captain or the cry of a seagull.</p>
<p>The woman's thoughts returned to Beit-al-Ajaib</p>
<p>&nbsp; &hellip;&hellip;&hellip;&hellip;. laughing and giggling, girls of seven or eight. A door on the first floor slammed and all sounds of them disappeared. Silence. The woman smiled. She could see herself, a young woman, dressed plainly, unselfconsciously, her sexuality tantalisingly just out of reach, hidden beneath the thin veil of her clothing. She remembered standing alone in the foyer, looking around, perplexed. Asim came through a door to the left of the tapestry.<br /><br />&ldquo;Salaam.&rdquo;<br /><br />The woman started and looked around. Then, realising, was cold again. Alone again. Alone, rocking to and fro to the rythm of the sea. Alone, beside a rough-hewn coffin.<br /><br /></p>
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<p>Also called "veil" or "square veil", the bridal veil is an important article for the bride at the wedding. Before going to the wedding at the bridegroom's home in a sedan chair, the bride has her head covered with a veil. After performing formal bows, a concentric flower ball-shaped pulling ribbon is knotted using the two red silk tapes provided by both families, with each end of the ribbon held by the bride and bridegroom respectively. The bridegroom then faces the bride and walks backward, leading the bride into the bridal chamber, where the ceremony of lifting the bridal veil will be held shortly afterwards.</p>
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<p><strong>History</strong></p>
<p>At weddings nowadays, the bride's head is veiled under a red kerchief. As Du You explains in his "Beginning in the Eastern Han, Wei and Jin Dynasties, there were often hard times. Taking advantage of an auspicious day, people married hastily.</p>
<p>A silk scarf was thrown over the bride's head and she was hastened to the groom's house. The proper kowtowing to the husband's relatives completed, she was married there.</p>
<p>The six etiquettes that had hitherto been considered necessary were abandoned."</p>
<p>Without the six etiquettes, the practice of covering the bride's has long since become the surrogate rite. The kerchief that was expedient for hasty weddings in ancient time is now a requirement in all weddings.</p>
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<p><strong>Bridal Veil</strong>: also called the head cover. At the wedding the bride's head and face should be covered by a red handkerchief, scark or a phoenix headdress*. The custom originated in many parts of ancient China.</p>
<p><strong>Six etiquettes</strong>: In ancient times the six etiquettes were necessary for the nuptials. They were: acceptance of the betrothal gifts, asking each others names, picking an auspicious date, exchange of wedding gifts, sending out invitations and receiving the bride.</p>
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<p style="text-align: center;"><em><span style="font-size: 120%;"> <span style="color: #757676;">'A maharaja&rsquo;s ruby cast on a Persian carpet by the blackest of hands'</span> </span></em></p>
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<p><em>The ancient dhow stirred in the soft morning breeze. Like a sleepy lion, it began to move through the water, snuffling about the other boats on the harbour; some scurrying, some at anchor, some darting before a brief gust of wind. The lateen sails a bustling panorama of blood-red and sun-bleached white.<br /><br />Aft, the woman's eyes searched the skyline, drinking in the architecture of Stone Town, the heart of Zanzibar; its jagged, cluttered silhouette so familiar, so much a part of her soul.<br /><br />Abruptly, her eyes ceased their restless searching, jagged by an invisible hook, transfixed by the grand buildings on the northern shore, Beit-al-Ajaib, the House of Wonders, Palace to the great Sultan of Zanzibar. The distinctive architecture captured in the tropical light: coconut white outlined by contrasting shadow plays of pepper black.<br /><br />A smile, ever so slight, started to play on the edge of her mouth then disappeared. A memory that should have been fond instantly turned to sharp unbearable pain. Her eyes hardened and moved on.<br /><br />Without warning the captain threw the rudder over. Stumbling, the woman barked her shin on a wooden box, a rough-hewn coffin. She recoiled, knocking over an untidy stack of cane baskets. Imprisoned in the baskets, rusty cockerels, their scruffy heads straining through the latticework, snapped at her, cried out to her; their raucous din overwhelming her, drowning her.<br /><br />Dimly, through the fog of noise, the strident swearing of the sailors in Kiswahili seeped into her conscious. Understanding, she smiled mirthlessly.<br /><br />The coffin had been carelessly stowed, a chore, rather than a labour of respect or love.</em></p>
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<p>&ldquo;Hello, who are you? I am Oliver, is Edward at home?&rdquo;<br /><br />The words were spoken by a tall, impeccably dressed young man as he rushed into Edward&rsquo;s flat shaking off surplus water and calling for whisky while shoving his umbrella into a stand. It was a blustery, grey, bitterly cold February afternoon in the heart of London. He brushed a curl of soft auburn hair from his forehead and smiled charmingly.<br /><br />Susan laughed, her hazel eyes dancing with the exhilaration of the new. &ldquo;Yes, he is having a bath. I think he is trying to get warm. I&rsquo;m Susan, Susan Carey, his sister.&rdquo;<br /><br />&ldquo;Ahhh yes, from Australia. How do you do?&rdquo; said Sir Oliver, smiling broadly and offering his hand. He noticed the laughter in her eyes, and the depth, particularly the depth, intensified by jade flecks that made them striking and alluring. &ldquo;So, you have arrived, good trip I trust.&rdquo;<br /><br />&ldquo;I am very well thank you, and yes, it was a good trip,&rdquo; replied Susan.<br /><br />He laughed and glanced at the sitting room, &ldquo;whisky?&rdquo;<br /><br />&ldquo;Oh, I&rsquo;m sorry, please come in&hellip;&hellip;.. that was silly of me, after all, it is your flat.&rdquo;<br /><br />Oliver smiled and gestured for Susan to lead the way. He followed her into the room, and after helping himself to a generous portion of whisky, walked over to the fire.<br /><br />Shortly after, Edward, wrapped in a huge ruby-coloured dressing gown and wiping soap from his ear strode into the room. He was of similar age to Oliver, late twenties, well built, if slightly podgy, with dark auburn hair and a full moustache. Susan looked up and smiled to herself, she could see now where he had picked up some of his new mannerisms.<br /><br />&ldquo;Thought I could hear voices. I see you two have met, no need for introductions then.&rdquo; <br /><br />As he was speaking, Edward walked to the side table and grabbed a whisky decanter by the neck. He glanced at Oliver who nodded. A long finger snaked into one of the tumblers followed by the distinctive clink of crystal. He swept the decanter off the table and carried it to where Oliver was sitting. After pouring the whisky, he sank into a lounge chair and sipped from his glass, enjoying the warm glow as it spread through his body.<br /><br />Suddenly he sat up exclaiming, &ldquo;Sorry sis, would you like something to drink?&rdquo;<br /><br />&ldquo;Kind of you to remember, but no thank you, and yes, Oliver has already inquired.&rdquo;<br /><br />Edward nodded and sank back into his lounge chair.<br /><br />They chatted, tentatively at first, getting to know one another. Edward had not seen Susan for two years and was unsure how his sister would take his new relationship. Oliver was intrigued by Susan. An attractive, self-assured young lady of high intelligence with a degree was a rare find. And, as fate would have it, she was also a trained and experienced teacher. He suggested a picnic at Oxford, which was met with ready acquiescence. Arrangements were made for the following Sunday.<br /><br />&ldquo;I&rsquo;ll see if the Rolls is available,&rdquo; mused Oliver. &ldquo;Must ring father, haven&rsquo;t spoken to him in ages.&rdquo;<br /><br />Oliver, Sir Oliver Marchmaine, was an unaffected young man of intense intelligence who saw life as a great adventure to be lived to the full. He was also unyieldingly loyal to his country, England, which is why he had joined Military Intelligence on leaving Oxford.<br /><br />It was 1910 and Europe was stirring. It was a time full of interest, intrigue and danger. The European chessboard was becoming increasingly complex, the moves more subtle. A time when an unexpected move or feint could have profound consequences.</p>
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<p>Regaining her balance, the woman&rsquo;s eyes were drawn, hesitantly at first, resisting back to Beit-al-Ajaib. She wondered if it was still the same. Still the same centre of power and intrigue that had been so much a part of her life all those years before; that had defined her life.<br /><br />She remembered those first few moments, remembered standing in the foyer of the palace, .&hellip;&hellip;&hellip;&hellip; remembered the breathtakingly beautiful Persian tapestry ........<br /><br />The sea breeze stirred her clothes. She smiled a little sadly, and in her mind the tapestry gently swayed. Two small apparitions ran giggling up the stairs: two small exquisitely rich burkas disappearing along the first floor landing. Childish squeals of mischief and joy left in the air.......<br /><br />&ldquo;Move to seaward, you accused of Allah! Move!&rdquo;<br /><br />Her thoughts were clawed back to the dhow, the captain crashing the tiller over to avoid another boat on the crowded harbour. The woman instinctively ducked her head to avoid the heavy boom as it swung over her, the rusty cockerels squawked their raucous indignation, their heads straining through the latticework, relentless. <br /><br />The collision avoided, the dhow continued on its way. The cacophony dying down to the occasional command by the captain or the cry of a seagull.</p>
<p>The woman's thoughts returned to Beit-al-Ajaib</p>
<p>&nbsp; &hellip;&hellip;&hellip;&hellip;. laughing and giggling, girls of seven or eight. A door on the first floor slammed and all sounds of them disappeared. Silence. The woman smiled. She could see herself, a young woman, dressed plainly, unselfconsciously, her sexuality tantalisingly just out of reach, hidden beneath the thin veil of her clothing. She remembered standing alone in the foyer, looking around, perplexed. Asim came through a door to the left of the tapestry.<br /><br />&ldquo;Salaam.&rdquo;<br /><br />The woman started and looked around. Then, realising, was cold again. Alone again. Alone, rocking to and fro to the rythm of the sea. Alone, beside a rough-hewn coffin.<br /><br /></p>
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<p>Qixi, literally "Night of Sevens," falls on the seventh day of the  seventh month on China's lunar calendar. It is based on the legend of  two separated lovers, Niu Lang and Zhi Nu, who could only meet each  other on Qixi through an interstellar bridge formed by magpies.<br /><br />People have been moved by the love story and the tradition of Qixi has been preserved for more than 2,000 years.</p>
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<p style="text-align: center;">Official name &nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;Qīxī Ji&eacute; (七夕節)</p>
<p style="text-align: center;">Also called &nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;Chinese Valentine's Day (情人节)</p>
<p style="text-align: center;">Date &nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;7th day of 7th lunar month</p>
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<p><strong>鹊桥仙<br /><br />秦观</strong><br /><br />织云弄巧<br />飞星传恨<br />银汉迢迢暗度<br /><br />金风玉露一相逢<br />便胜却人间无数<br /><br />柔情似水<br />佳期如梦<br />忍顾鹊桥归路<br /><br />两情若是久长时<br />又岂在朝朝暮暮<br /><br /><br /><strong>Fairy Of The Magpie Bridge<br />By Qin Guan<br /></strong><br />Among the beautiful clouds,<br />Over the heavenly river,<br />Crosses the weaving maiden.<br /><br />A night of rendezvous,<br />Across the autumn sky.<br /><br />Surpasses joy on earth.<br />Moments of tender love and dream,<br />So sad to leave the magpie bridge.<br /><br />Eternal love between us two,<br />Shall withstand the time apart.</p>
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<p>The seventh day of the seventh month of the lunar calendar is known as Qi Xi Jie or 七夕节, a traditional holiday that has been recently called China's Valentine's Day.<br /><br />The 2,000-plus-year-old holiday marks the star-crossed love between a cow herder Niulang and Zhinu, a weaver of clouds and the daughter of the Jade Emperor who is the Daoist ruler of heaven. <br /><br />The story goes that the the two fell in love and got married, but their bond was met with disapproval by Wangmu, Zhinu's mother and the queen of heaven. Niulang is viewed as the star Altair and Zhinu as the star Vega. With a swift move of her hairpin, She separated the two with a river in the sky, known today as the Milky Way.<br /><br />But the queen took pity on them and gave them one night of the year to spend together. On Qi Xi Jie, the queen is said to send magpies to bridge the celestial gap between the two star lovers.<br /><br />The tale seems to be an interpretation of the prominence of the two stars Altair and Vega, which together with Deneb, make up the Western constellation, The Summer Triangle, which is highly visible in the summer in the northern hemisphere.<br /><br />In an interview with Xinghua, Beijing Normal University folklore professor Xiao Fang said that the rejuvenation of the holiday in China is due to two phenomenons.<br /><br />"First, it is a natural response to the challenges of Western festivals, such as the Valentine's Day and Christmas. Secondly, people need special occasions to channel their affections so they want such a festival to socialize," Fang told Xinhua.</p>
<p><br /><br /><strong>Modern Interpretations</strong><br /><br />Many Chinese view it as another chance to buy gifts for their sweethearts, and the holiday is repeated again on February 14, where Valentine's culture appears to have permeated the earth.<br /><br />The lovers were once immortalized by Song Dynasty poet Qin Guan. Thanks to Dr. Kylie Hsu from Cal State Los Angeles, here is a translation of that poem Fairy of the Magpie Bridge<br /><br />A great line from Hsu's translation: "A night of rendezvous, Across the autumn sky. Surpasses joy on earth."</p>
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<p>The Chinese Valentine&rsquo;s Day is one of traditional chinese festival, which usually arrives on the seventh day of the seventh lunar month every year (so also called &ldquo;Double-Seventh Day&rdquo; and &ldquo;Qi Xi Festival&rdquo;). It is the most romantic Chinese traditional festival and the big day of all girls. Because the major players are young girls and the major activity is to pray for skills, Qi Xi Festival is also called the festival to plead for skills or the night of skills (Chinese means &ldquo;乞巧节&rdquo;).</p>
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<p><strong>Origin of Chinese Valentine&rsquo;s Day</strong><br /><br />In old times, the Jade Emperor (Chinese means &ldquo;玉皇大帝&rdquo;) and the Empress of the West (Chinese means &ldquo;王母娘娘&rdquo;) had seven beautiful daughters, known as the &ldquo;Seven Fairies.&rdquo; One day, &ldquo;Seven Fairies&rdquo; went to Milky Way to take a bath. A cowboy found them, hide in the reeds, and took away fairies&rsquo; clothes. Seven Fairies were frightened and made away only left weaver girl. She was moved by the cowboy&rsquo;s ardent pursue, married with him and later gave birth to a son and a daughter.</p>
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<p>Finally,&nbsp; the Jade Emperor and the Empress of the West found the truth, they raged and ordered sky soldiers to recapture the weaver girl. Cowboy came hone and foud the weaver girl was disappeared. He brought two children and was after the weaver girl. The Empress of the West used her gold hairpin to divide Milky Way into two parts when the cowboy almost near the weaver girl. Since then, the couples cried almost every day, so the Jade Emperor and the Empress of the West allowed them to meet once every year on July 7th, on that day magpies would gather overhead the Milky Way to build Magpie Bridge for the couples.</p>
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<p><strong>Custom of Chinese Valentine&rsquo;s Day</strong><br /><br />1) <strong>Thread a needle</strong>: This is the original custom of Chinese Valentine&rsquo;s Day, which began from the Han Dynasty.<br />QI Xi Festival - Thread a needle</p>
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<p>2) <strong>Cast a needle</strong>: This is the evolving custom of thread a needle, which is prevalent in the Ming and Qing dynasties.</p>
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<p>3) <strong>In honor of&nbsp; the weaver girl</strong>. Young girls and young women gather with their friends or neighbors to worship the weaver girl.</p>
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<p>4)<strong> Celebrate the cattle&rsquo;s birthday</strong>. Children pick flowers on that day to hang on Cowhorn, as to in honor of the cattle&rsquo;s devotion.</p>
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<p><em>The ancient dhow stirred in the soft morning breeze. Like a sleepy lion, it began to move through the water, snuffling about the other boats on the harbour; some scurrying, some at anchor, some darting before a brief gust of wind. The lateen sails a bustling panorama of blood-red and sun-bleached white.<br /><br />Aft, the woman's eyes searched the skyline, drinking in the architecture of Stone Town, the heart of Zanzibar; its jagged, cluttered silhouette so familiar, so much a part of her soul.<br /><br />Abruptly, her eyes ceased their restless searching, jagged by an invisible hook, transfixed by the grand buildings on the northern shore, Beit-al-Ajaib, the House of Wonders, Palace to the great Sultan of Zanzibar. The distinctive architecture captured in the tropical light: coconut white outlined by contrasting shadow plays of pepper black.<br /><br />A smile, ever so slight, started to play on the edge of her mouth then disappeared. A memory that should have been fond instantly turned to sharp unbearable pain. Her eyes hardened and moved on.<br /><br />Without warning the captain threw the rudder over. Stumbling, the woman barked her shin on a wooden box, a rough-hewn coffin. She recoiled, knocking over an untidy stack of cane baskets. Imprisoned in the baskets, rusty cockerels, their scruffy heads straining through the latticework, snapped at her, cried out to her; their raucous din overwhelming her, drowning her.<br /><br />Dimly, through the fog of noise, the strident swearing of the sailors in Kiswahili seeped into her conscious. Understanding, she smiled mirthlessly.<br /><br />The coffin had been carelessly stowed, a chore, rather than a labour of respect or love.</em></p>
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<p>&ldquo;Hello, who are you? I am Oliver, is Edward at home?&rdquo;<br /><br />The words were spoken by a tall, impeccably dressed young man as he rushed into Edward&rsquo;s flat shaking off surplus water and calling for whisky while shoving his umbrella into a stand. It was a blustery, grey, bitterly cold February afternoon in the heart of London. He brushed a curl of soft auburn hair from his forehead and smiled charmingly.<br /><br />Susan laughed, her hazel eyes dancing with the exhilaration of the new. &ldquo;Yes, he is having a bath. I think he is trying to get warm. I&rsquo;m Susan, Susan Carey, his sister.&rdquo;<br /><br />&ldquo;Ahhh yes, from Australia. How do you do?&rdquo; said Sir Oliver, smiling broadly and offering his hand. He noticed the laughter in her eyes, and the depth, particularly the depth, intensified by jade flecks that made them striking and alluring. &ldquo;So, you have arrived, good trip I trust.&rdquo;<br /><br />&ldquo;I am very well thank you, and yes, it was a good trip,&rdquo; replied Susan.<br /><br />He laughed and glanced at the sitting room, &ldquo;whisky?&rdquo;<br /><br />&ldquo;Oh, I&rsquo;m sorry, please come in&hellip;&hellip;.. that was silly of me, after all, it is your flat.&rdquo;<br /><br />Oliver smiled and gestured for Susan to lead the way. He followed her into the room, and after helping himself to a generous portion of whisky, walked over to the fire.<br /><br />Shortly after, Edward, wrapped in a huge ruby-coloured dressing gown and wiping soap from his ear strode into the room. He was of similar age to Oliver, late twenties, well built, if slightly podgy, with dark auburn hair and a full moustache. Susan looked up and smiled to herself, she could see now where he had picked up some of his new mannerisms.<br /><br />&ldquo;Thought I could hear voices. I see you two have met, no need for introductions then.&rdquo; <br /><br />As he was speaking, Edward walked to the side table and grabbed a whisky decanter by the neck. He glanced at Oliver who nodded. A long finger snaked into one of the tumblers followed by the distinctive clink of crystal. He swept the decanter off the table and carried it to where Oliver was sitting. After pouring the whisky, he sank into a lounge chair and sipped from his glass, enjoying the warm glow as it spread through his body.<br /><br />Suddenly he sat up exclaiming, &ldquo;Sorry sis, would you like something to drink?&rdquo;<br /><br />&ldquo;Kind of you to remember, but no thank you, and yes, Oliver has already inquired.&rdquo;<br /><br />Edward nodded and sank back into his lounge chair.<br /><br />They chatted, tentatively at first, getting to know one another. Edward had not seen Susan for two years and was unsure how his sister would take his new relationship. Oliver was intrigued by Susan. An attractive, self-assured young lady of high intelligence with a degree was a rare find. And, as fate would have it, she was also a trained and experienced teacher. He suggested a picnic at Oxford, which was met with ready acquiescence. Arrangements were made for the following Sunday.<br /><br />&ldquo;I&rsquo;ll see if the Rolls is available,&rdquo; mused Oliver. &ldquo;Must ring father, haven&rsquo;t spoken to him in ages.&rdquo;<br /><br />Oliver, Sir Oliver Marchmaine, was an unaffected young man of intense intelligence who saw life as a great adventure to be lived to the full. He was also unyieldingly loyal to his country, England, which is why he had joined Military Intelligence on leaving Oxford.<br /><br />It was 1910 and Europe was stirring. It was a time full of interest, intrigue and danger. The European chessboard was becoming increasingly complex, the moves more subtle. A time when an unexpected move or feint could have profound consequences.</p>
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<p>Regaining her balance, the woman&rsquo;s eyes were drawn, hesitantly at first, resisting back to Beit-al-Ajaib. She wondered if it was still the same. Still the same centre of power and intrigue that had been so much a part of her life all those years before; that had defined her life.<br /><br />She remembered those first few moments, remembered standing in the foyer of the palace, .&hellip;&hellip;&hellip;&hellip; remembered the breathtakingly beautiful Persian tapestry ........<br /><br />The sea breeze stirred her clothes. She smiled a little sadly, and in her mind the tapestry gently swayed. Two small apparitions ran giggling up the stairs: two small exquisitely rich burkas disappearing along the first floor landing. Childish squeals of mischief and joy left in the air.......<br /><br />&ldquo;Move to seaward, you accused of Allah! Move!&rdquo;<br /><br />Her thoughts were clawed back to the dhow, the captain crashing the tiller over to avoid another boat on the crowded harbour. The woman instinctively ducked her head to avoid the heavy boom as it swung over her, the rusty cockerels squawked their raucous indignation, their heads straining through the latticework, relentless. <br /><br />The collision avoided, the dhow continued on its way. The cacophony dying down to the occasional command by the captain or the cry of a seagull.</p>
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<p>Rich and powerful families prepared the 'Three Golds' to offer to the girl's family: a gold armlet, a gold bracelet and a cape with gold decortations. Small business families that did not possess any gold articles used silver-plated articles as a substitute.</p>
<p>In addition to those things, families of government officials also sent the following gifts: a wide-sleeved overcoat, a long yellow skirt, both were embroidered with gold thread, and a red silk dress or a piece of red silk cloth with large embroidered patterns.</p>
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<p>Wu zimu (Song Dynasty): Records of a Pipe Dream.</p>
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<p style="text-align: center;"><em><span style="font-size: 120%;"> <span style="color: #757676;">'A maharaja&rsquo;s ruby cast on a Persian carpet by the blackest of hands'</span> </span></em></p>
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<p><em>The ancient dhow stirred in the soft morning breeze. Like a sleepy lion, it began to move through the water, snuffling about the other boats on the harbour; some scurrying, some at anchor, some darting before a brief gust of wind. The lateen sails a bustling panorama of blood-red and sun-bleached white.<br /><br />Aft, the woman's eyes searched the skyline, drinking in the architecture of Stone Town, the heart of Zanzibar; its jagged, cluttered silhouette so familiar, so much a part of her soul.<br /><br />Abruptly, her eyes ceased their restless searching, jagged by an invisible hook, transfixed by the grand buildings on the northern shore, Beit-al-Ajaib, the House of Wonders, Palace to the great Sultan of Zanzibar. The distinctive architecture captured in the tropical light: coconut white outlined by contrasting shadow plays of pepper black.<br /><br />A smile, ever so slight, started to play on the edge of her mouth then disappeared. A memory that should have been fond instantly turned to sharp unbearable pain. Her eyes hardened and moved on.<br /><br />Without warning the captain threw the rudder over. Stumbling, the woman barked her shin on a wooden box, a rough-hewn coffin. She recoiled, knocking over an untidy stack of cane baskets. Imprisoned in the baskets, rusty cockerels, their scruffy heads straining through the latticework, snapped at her, cried out to her; their raucous din overwhelming her, drowning her.<br /><br />Dimly, through the fog of noise, the strident swearing of the sailors in Kiswahili seeped into her conscious. Understanding, she smiled mirthlessly.<br /><br />The coffin had been carelessly stowed, a chore, rather than a labour of respect or love.</em></p>
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<p>&ldquo;Hello, who are you? I am Oliver, is Edward at home?&rdquo;<br /><br />The words were spoken by a tall, impeccably dressed young man as he rushed into Edward&rsquo;s flat shaking off surplus water and calling for whisky while shoving his umbrella into a stand. It was a blustery, grey, bitterly cold February afternoon in the heart of London. He brushed a curl of soft auburn hair from his forehead and smiled charmingly.<br /><br />Susan laughed, her hazel eyes dancing with the exhilaration of the new. &ldquo;Yes, he is having a bath. I think he is trying to get warm. I&rsquo;m Susan, Susan Carey, his sister.&rdquo;<br /><br />&ldquo;Ahhh yes, from Australia. How do you do?&rdquo; said Sir Oliver, smiling broadly and offering his hand. He noticed the laughter in her eyes, and the depth, particularly the depth, intensified by jade flecks that made them striking and alluring. &ldquo;So, you have arrived, good trip I trust.&rdquo;<br /><br />&ldquo;I am very well thank you, and yes, it was a good trip,&rdquo; replied Susan.<br /><br />He laughed and glanced at the sitting room, &ldquo;whisky?&rdquo;<br /><br />&ldquo;Oh, I&rsquo;m sorry, please come in&hellip;&hellip;.. that was silly of me, after all, it is your flat.&rdquo;<br /><br />Oliver smiled and gestured for Susan to lead the way. He followed her into the room, and after helping himself to a generous portion of whisky, walked over to the fire.<br /><br />Shortly after, Edward, wrapped in a huge ruby-coloured dressing gown and wiping soap from his ear strode into the room. He was of similar age to Oliver, late twenties, well built, if slightly podgy, with dark auburn hair and a full moustache. Susan looked up and smiled to herself, she could see now where he had picked up some of his new mannerisms.<br /><br />&ldquo;Thought I could hear voices. I see you two have met, no need for introductions then.&rdquo; <br /><br />As he was speaking, Edward walked to the side table and grabbed a whisky decanter by the neck. He glanced at Oliver who nodded. A long finger snaked into one of the tumblers followed by the distinctive clink of crystal. He swept the decanter off the table and carried it to where Oliver was sitting. After pouring the whisky, he sank into a lounge chair and sipped from his glass, enjoying the warm glow as it spread through his body.<br /><br />Suddenly he sat up exclaiming, &ldquo;Sorry sis, would you like something to drink?&rdquo;<br /><br />&ldquo;Kind of you to remember, but no thank you, and yes, Oliver has already inquired.&rdquo;<br /><br />Edward nodded and sank back into his lounge chair.<br /><br />They chatted, tentatively at first, getting to know one another. Edward had not seen Susan for two years and was unsure how his sister would take his new relationship. Oliver was intrigued by Susan. An attractive, self-assured young lady of high intelligence with a degree was a rare find. And, as fate would have it, she was also a trained and experienced teacher. He suggested a picnic at Oxford, which was met with ready acquiescence. Arrangements were made for the following Sunday.<br /><br />&ldquo;I&rsquo;ll see if the Rolls is available,&rdquo; mused Oliver. &ldquo;Must ring father, haven&rsquo;t spoken to him in ages.&rdquo;<br /><br />Oliver, Sir Oliver Marchmaine, was an unaffected young man of intense intelligence who saw life as a great adventure to be lived to the full. He was also unyieldingly loyal to his country, England, which is why he had joined Military Intelligence on leaving Oxford.<br /><br />It was 1910 and Europe was stirring. It was a time full of interest, intrigue and danger. The European chessboard was becoming increasingly complex, the moves more subtle. A time when an unexpected move or feint could have profound consequences.</p>
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<p>Regaining her balance, the woman&rsquo;s eyes were drawn, hesitantly at first, resisting back to Beit-al-Ajaib. She wondered if it was still the same. Still the same centre of power and intrigue that had been so much a part of her life all those years before; that had defined her life.<br /><br />She remembered those first few moments, remembered standing in the foyer of the palace, .&hellip;&hellip;&hellip;&hellip; remembered the breathtakingly beautiful Persian tapestry ........<br /><br />The sea breeze stirred her clothes. She smiled a little sadly, and in her mind the tapestry gently swayed. Two small apparitions ran giggling up the stairs: two small exquisitely rich burkas disappearing along the first floor landing. Childish squeals of mischief and joy left in the air.......<br /><br />&ldquo;Move to seaward, you accused of Allah! Move!&rdquo;<br /><br />Her thoughts were clawed back to the dhow, the captain crashing the tiller over to avoid another boat on the crowded harbour. The woman instinctively ducked her head to avoid the heavy boom as it swung over her, the rusty cockerels squawked their raucous indignation, their heads straining through the latticework, relentless. <br /><br />The collision avoided, the dhow continued on its way. The cacophony dying down to the occasional command by the captain or the cry of a seagull.</p>
<p>The woman's thoughts returned to Beit-al-Ajaib</p>
<p>&nbsp; &hellip;&hellip;&hellip;&hellip;. laughing and giggling, girls of seven or eight. A door on the first floor slammed and all sounds of them disappeared. Silence. The woman smiled. She could see herself, a young woman, dressed plainly, unselfconsciously, her sexuality tantalisingly just out of reach, hidden beneath the thin veil of her clothing. She remembered standing alone in the foyer, looking around, perplexed. Asim came through a door to the left of the tapestry.<br /><br />&ldquo;Salaam.&rdquo;<br /><br />The woman started and looked around. Then, realising, was cold again. Alone again. Alone, rocking to and fro to the rythm of the sea. Alone, beside a rough-hewn coffin.<br /><br /></p>
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<p>In the States of Yan and zhao, the son of a relatively well-off family would be betrothed to a grown-up girl when he was between the ages of three and five. Anticipating that their daughter's betrothal gifts would be profitable, poor families with a lot of children would marry then in accordance with the local custom.</p>
<p>When the betrothed girl arrived at the in-laws, he first thing she did was to make obeisance to her parents-in-law in the way she did to her own parents, and she addressed her husband as "younger brother".</p>
<p>Chors like fetching water from a well, grinding rice in a morar, cooking and sweing all fell on her. At night she would lull her little husband to sleep, and during the daytime she dressed and fed him. She actually served as a maid in the house. The marriage took place when the boy grew up.</p>
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<p style="text-align: center;"><em><strong style="font-size: 200%;"><span style="color: #757676;">Zanzibar </span></strong></em></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><em><span style="font-size: 120%;"> <span style="color: #757676;">'A maharaja&rsquo;s ruby cast on a Persian carpet by the blackest of hands'</span> </span></em></p>
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<p><em>The ancient dhow stirred in the soft morning breeze. Like a sleepy lion, it began to move through the water, snuffling about the other boats on the harbour; some scurrying, some at anchor, some darting before a brief gust of wind. The lateen sails a bustling panorama of blood-red and sun-bleached white.<br /><br />Aft, the woman's eyes searched the skyline, drinking in the architecture of Stone Town, the heart of Zanzibar; its jagged, cluttered silhouette so familiar, so much a part of her soul.<br /><br />Abruptly, her eyes ceased their restless searching, jagged by an invisible hook, transfixed by the grand buildings on the northern shore, Beit-al-Ajaib, the House of Wonders, Palace to the great Sultan of Zanzibar. The distinctive architecture captured in the tropical light: coconut white outlined by contrasting shadow plays of pepper black.<br /><br />A smile, ever so slight, started to play on the edge of her mouth then disappeared. A memory that should have been fond instantly turned to sharp unbearable pain. Her eyes hardened and moved on.<br /><br />Without warning the captain threw the rudder over. Stumbling, the woman barked her shin on a wooden box, a rough-hewn coffin. She recoiled, knocking over an untidy stack of cane baskets. Imprisoned in the baskets, rusty cockerels, their scruffy heads straining through the latticework, snapped at her, cried out to her; their raucous din overwhelming her, drowning her.<br /><br />Dimly, through the fog of noise, the strident swearing of the sailors in Kiswahili seeped into her conscious. Understanding, she smiled mirthlessly.<br /><br />The coffin had been carelessly stowed, a chore, rather than a labour of respect or love.</em></p>
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<p>&ldquo;Hello, who are you? I am Oliver, is Edward at home?&rdquo;<br /><br />The words were spoken by a tall, impeccably dressed young man as he rushed into Edward&rsquo;s flat shaking off surplus water and calling for whisky while shoving his umbrella into a stand. It was a blustery, grey, bitterly cold February afternoon in the heart of London. He brushed a curl of soft auburn hair from his forehead and smiled charmingly.<br /><br />Susan laughed, her hazel eyes dancing with the exhilaration of the new. &ldquo;Yes, he is having a bath. I think he is trying to get warm. I&rsquo;m Susan, Susan Carey, his sister.&rdquo;<br /><br />&ldquo;Ahhh yes, from Australia. How do you do?&rdquo; said Sir Oliver, smiling broadly and offering his hand. He noticed the laughter in her eyes, and the depth, particularly the depth, intensified by jade flecks that made them striking and alluring. &ldquo;So, you have arrived, good trip I trust.&rdquo;<br /><br />&ldquo;I am very well thank you, and yes, it was a good trip,&rdquo; replied Susan.<br /><br />He laughed and glanced at the sitting room, &ldquo;whisky?&rdquo;<br /><br />&ldquo;Oh, I&rsquo;m sorry, please come in&hellip;&hellip;.. that was silly of me, after all, it is your flat.&rdquo;<br /><br />Oliver smiled and gestured for Susan to lead the way. He followed her into the room, and after helping himself to a generous portion of whisky, walked over to the fire.<br /><br />Shortly after, Edward, wrapped in a huge ruby-coloured dressing gown and wiping soap from his ear strode into the room. He was of similar age to Oliver, late twenties, well built, if slightly podgy, with dark auburn hair and a full moustache. Susan looked up and smiled to herself, she could see now where he had picked up some of his new mannerisms.<br /><br />&ldquo;Thought I could hear voices. I see you two have met, no need for introductions then.&rdquo; <br /><br />As he was speaking, Edward walked to the side table and grabbed a whisky decanter by the neck. He glanced at Oliver who nodded. A long finger snaked into one of the tumblers followed by the distinctive clink of crystal. He swept the decanter off the table and carried it to where Oliver was sitting. After pouring the whisky, he sank into a lounge chair and sipped from his glass, enjoying the warm glow as it spread through his body.<br /><br />Suddenly he sat up exclaiming, &ldquo;Sorry sis, would you like something to drink?&rdquo;<br /><br />&ldquo;Kind of you to remember, but no thank you, and yes, Oliver has already inquired.&rdquo;<br /><br />Edward nodded and sank back into his lounge chair.<br /><br />They chatted, tentatively at first, getting to know one another. Edward had not seen Susan for two years and was unsure how his sister would take his new relationship. Oliver was intrigued by Susan. An attractive, self-assured young lady of high intelligence with a degree was a rare find. And, as fate would have it, she was also a trained and experienced teacher. He suggested a picnic at Oxford, which was met with ready acquiescence. Arrangements were made for the following Sunday.<br /><br />&ldquo;I&rsquo;ll see if the Rolls is available,&rdquo; mused Oliver. &ldquo;Must ring father, haven&rsquo;t spoken to him in ages.&rdquo;<br /><br />Oliver, Sir Oliver Marchmaine, was an unaffected young man of intense intelligence who saw life as a great adventure to be lived to the full. He was also unyieldingly loyal to his country, England, which is why he had joined Military Intelligence on leaving Oxford.<br /><br />It was 1910 and Europe was stirring. It was a time full of interest, intrigue and danger. The European chessboard was becoming increasingly complex, the moves more subtle. A time when an unexpected move or feint could have profound consequences.</p>
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<p>Regaining her balance, the woman&rsquo;s eyes were drawn, hesitantly at first, resisting back to Beit-al-Ajaib. She wondered if it was still the same. Still the same centre of power and intrigue that had been so much a part of her life all those years before; that had defined her life.<br /><br />She remembered those first few moments, remembered standing in the foyer of the palace, .&hellip;&hellip;&hellip;&hellip; remembered the breathtakingly beautiful Persian tapestry ........<br /><br />The sea breeze stirred her clothes. She smiled a little sadly, and in her mind the tapestry gently swayed. Two small apparitions ran giggling up the stairs: two small exquisitely rich burkas disappearing along the first floor landing. Childish squeals of mischief and joy left in the air.......<br /><br />&ldquo;Move to seaward, you accused of Allah! Move!&rdquo;<br /><br />Her thoughts were clawed back to the dhow, the captain crashing the tiller over to avoid another boat on the crowded harbour. The woman instinctively ducked her head to avoid the heavy boom as it swung over her, the rusty cockerels squawked their raucous indignation, their heads straining through the latticework, relentless. <br /><br />The collision avoided, the dhow continued on its way. The cacophony dying down to the occasional command by the captain or the cry of a seagull.</p>
<p>The woman's thoughts returned to Beit-al-Ajaib</p>
<p>&nbsp; &hellip;&hellip;&hellip;&hellip;. laughing and giggling, girls of seven or eight. A door on the first floor slammed and all sounds of them disappeared. Silence. The woman smiled. She could see herself, a young woman, dressed plainly, unselfconsciously, her sexuality tantalisingly just out of reach, hidden beneath the thin veil of her clothing. She remembered standing alone in the foyer, looking around, perplexed. Asim came through a door to the left of the tapestry.<br /><br />&ldquo;Salaam.&rdquo;<br /><br />The woman started and looked around. Then, realising, was cold again. Alone again. Alone, rocking to and fro to the rythm of the sea. Alone, beside a rough-hewn coffin.<br /><br /></p>
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<p>In Chinese folk religion and Chinese mythology, the Kitchen God, named Zao Jun 灶君 literally "stove master" or Zao Shen 灶神 literally "stove god" or "stove spirit", is the most important of a plethora of Chinese domestic gods that protect the hearth and family with the addition of being celebrated in Vietnamese culture as well.</p>
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<p>On the 24th of the last month in the lunar calendar, families worship the Kitchen God with offerings of homemade sweets, rice cakes, dates, walnuts and fired beans. They also burn fodder as a gesture symbolic of feeding the Kitchen God's horse.</p>
<p>It is believed that the Kitchen God will return to heaven the next day and report to the Jade Emperor all the deeds of each family for the previous year. So they pray to the Kitchen God: "Speak more of the virtues of the family and less of its evil deeds".</p>
<p>The ceremonial part of this celebration is presided over by a man, and, according to a taboo, women are not allowed to view the ceremonies.</p>
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<p>It is said that the Kitchen God is in control of a family's fortune and misfortunes. His shrine is located above the kitchen stove. He reports the good and evil people have done to the Jade Emperor on the 23rd of 24th of December of the lunar year. Families usually offer sacrifices to the Kitchen God on that day. At the end of the ceremony the old portrait of the Kitchen God is burnt and a new one put up.</p>
<p>Offering, including sweets made from<a href="http://kaixin.com.au/mfw/2008/6/3/from-malt-sugar-remember-the-story.html" target="_blank"> malt sugar</a> are intended to please the Kitchen God so that he will only talk about the good deeds of the family. People also hope that the sticky sweets will seal the Kitchen God's mouth so that he will tell no tales.</p>
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<p><strong>The Story of Zao Jun</strong><br /><br />Though there are many stories on how Zao Jun became the Kitchen God, the most popular dates back to around the 2nd Century BC. Zao Jun was originally a mortal man living on earth whose name was Zhang Lang. He eventually became married to a virtuous woman, but ended up falling in love with a younger woman. He left his wife to be with this younger woman and, as punishment for this adulterous act, the heavens afflicted him with ill-fortune. He became blind, and his young lover abandoned him, leaving him to resort to begging to support himself.<br /><br />One day, while begging for alms, he happened across the house of his former wife. Being blind, he did not recognize her. Despite his shoddy treatment of her, she took pity on him, and invited him in. She cooked him a fabulous meal and tended to him lovingly; he then related his story to her. As he shared his story, Zhang Lang became overwhelmed with self-pity and the pain of his error and began to weep. Upon hearing him apologize, Zhang's former wife told him to open his eyes and his vision was restored. Recognizing the wife he had abandoned, Zhang felt such shame that he threw himself into the kitchen hearth, not realizing that it was lit. His former wife attempted to save him, but all she managed to salvage was one of his legs.<br /><br />The devoted woman then created a shrine to her former husband above the fireplace, which began Zao Jun's association with the stove in Chinese homes. To this day, a fire poker is sometimes referred to as "Zhang Lang's Leg".<br /><br />Alternatively, there is another tale where Zao Jun was a man so poor he was forced to sell his wife. Years later he unwittingly became a servant in the house of her new husband. Taking pity on him she baked him some cakes into which she had hidden money, but he failed to notice this and sold the cakes for a pittance. When he realized what he had done he took his own life in despair. In both stories Heaven takes pity on Zhang Lang's tragic story. Instead of becoming a vampirish Hopping corpse, the usual fate of suicides, he was made the god of the Kitchen, and was reunited with his wife.<br /><br />The origin of the Kitchen God has different stories behind it just as any historical cultural tradition may. Another possible story of the "Stove God" is believed to have appeared soon after the invention of the brick stove. The Kitchen God was originally believed to have resided in the stove and only later took on human form. During the Han Dynasty, it is believed that a poor farmer named Yin Zifang, was surprised by the Kitchen God who appeared on Lunar New Year as he was cooking his breakfast. Yin Zifang decided to sacrifice his only yellow sheep for the Kitchen God. In doing so, he became rich and decided that every winter he would sacrifice one yellow sheep in order to display his deep gratitude for the Kitchen God.</p>
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<p>In the above representation of Xao Chun, we see him and his wife flanked by two servants holding jars in which are stored the the rewards or punishments for the deeds or misdeeds that have occured during the year. Two other servants stand in the foreground:they serve both Tsao Chun and the Jade Emperor and are intermediaries between the heavenly and earthly world.<br /><br />The Taoist notion of balanced yin and yang energies is symbolized by the rooster and the dog who stand guard on either side of the a jar filled with money and other riches the family hope will come to them in the coming year.</p>
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<p><em>The ancient dhow stirred in the soft morning breeze. Like a sleepy lion, it began to move through the water, snuffling about the other boats on the harbour; some scurrying, some at anchor, some darting before a brief gust of wind. The lateen sails a bustling panorama of blood-red and sun-bleached white.<br /><br />Aft, the woman's eyes searched the skyline, drinking in the architecture of Stone Town, the heart of Zanzibar; its jagged, cluttered silhouette so familiar, so much a part of her soul.<br /><br />Abruptly, her eyes ceased their restless searching, jagged by an invisible hook, transfixed by the grand buildings on the northern shore, Beit-al-Ajaib, the House of Wonders, Palace to the great Sultan of Zanzibar. The distinctive architecture captured in the tropical light: coconut white outlined by contrasting shadow plays of pepper black.<br /><br />A smile, ever so slight, started to play on the edge of her mouth then disappeared. A memory that should have been fond instantly turned to sharp unbearable pain. Her eyes hardened and moved on.<br /><br />Without warning the captain threw the rudder over. Stumbling, the woman barked her shin on a wooden box, a rough-hewn coffin. She recoiled, knocking over an untidy stack of cane baskets. Imprisoned in the baskets, rusty cockerels, their scruffy heads straining through the latticework, snapped at her, cried out to her; their raucous din overwhelming her, drowning her.<br /><br />Dimly, through the fog of noise, the strident swearing of the sailors in Kiswahili seeped into her conscious. Understanding, she smiled mirthlessly.<br /><br />The coffin had been carelessly stowed, a chore, rather than a labour of respect or love.</em></p>
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<p>&ldquo;Hello, who are you? I am Oliver, is Edward at home?&rdquo;<br /><br />The words were spoken by a tall, impeccably dressed young man as he rushed into Edward&rsquo;s flat shaking off surplus water and calling for whisky while shoving his umbrella into a stand. It was a blustery, grey, bitterly cold February afternoon in the heart of London. He brushed a curl of soft auburn hair from his forehead and smiled charmingly.<br /><br />Susan laughed, her hazel eyes dancing with the exhilaration of the new. &ldquo;Yes, he is having a bath. I think he is trying to get warm. I&rsquo;m Susan, Susan Carey, his sister.&rdquo;<br /><br />&ldquo;Ahhh yes, from Australia. How do you do?&rdquo; said Sir Oliver, smiling broadly and offering his hand. He noticed the laughter in her eyes, and the depth, particularly the depth, intensified by jade flecks that made them striking and alluring. &ldquo;So, you have arrived, good trip I trust.&rdquo;<br /><br />&ldquo;I am very well thank you, and yes, it was a good trip,&rdquo; replied Susan.<br /><br />He laughed and glanced at the sitting room, &ldquo;whisky?&rdquo;<br /><br />&ldquo;Oh, I&rsquo;m sorry, please come in&hellip;&hellip;.. that was silly of me, after all, it is your flat.&rdquo;<br /><br />Oliver smiled and gestured for Susan to lead the way. He followed her into the room, and after helping himself to a generous portion of whisky, walked over to the fire.<br /><br />Shortly after, Edward, wrapped in a huge ruby-coloured dressing gown and wiping soap from his ear strode into the room. He was of similar age to Oliver, late twenties, well built, if slightly podgy, with dark auburn hair and a full moustache. Susan looked up and smiled to herself, she could see now where he had picked up some of his new mannerisms.<br /><br />&ldquo;Thought I could hear voices. I see you two have met, no need for introductions then.&rdquo; <br /><br />As he was speaking, Edward walked to the side table and grabbed a whisky decanter by the neck. He glanced at Oliver who nodded. A long finger snaked into one of the tumblers followed by the distinctive clink of crystal. He swept the decanter off the table and carried it to where Oliver was sitting. After pouring the whisky, he sank into a lounge chair and sipped from his glass, enjoying the warm glow as it spread through his body.<br /><br />Suddenly he sat up exclaiming, &ldquo;Sorry sis, would you like something to drink?&rdquo;<br /><br />&ldquo;Kind of you to remember, but no thank you, and yes, Oliver has already inquired.&rdquo;<br /><br />Edward nodded and sank back into his lounge chair.<br /><br />They chatted, tentatively at first, getting to know one another. Edward had not seen Susan for two years and was unsure how his sister would take his new relationship. Oliver was intrigued by Susan. An attractive, self-assured young lady of high intelligence with a degree was a rare find. And, as fate would have it, she was also a trained and experienced teacher. He suggested a picnic at Oxford, which was met with ready acquiescence. Arrangements were made for the following Sunday.<br /><br />&ldquo;I&rsquo;ll see if the Rolls is available,&rdquo; mused Oliver. &ldquo;Must ring father, haven&rsquo;t spoken to him in ages.&rdquo;<br /><br />Oliver, Sir Oliver Marchmaine, was an unaffected young man of intense intelligence who saw life as a great adventure to be lived to the full. He was also unyieldingly loyal to his country, England, which is why he had joined Military Intelligence on leaving Oxford.<br /><br />It was 1910 and Europe was stirring. It was a time full of interest, intrigue and danger. The European chessboard was becoming increasingly complex, the moves more subtle. A time when an unexpected move or feint could have profound consequences.</p>
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<p>Regaining her balance, the woman&rsquo;s eyes were drawn, hesitantly at first, resisting back to Beit-al-Ajaib. She wondered if it was still the same. Still the same centre of power and intrigue that had been so much a part of her life all those years before; that had defined her life.<br /><br />She remembered those first few moments, remembered standing in the foyer of the palace, .&hellip;&hellip;&hellip;&hellip; remembered the breathtakingly beautiful Persian tapestry ........<br /><br />The sea breeze stirred her clothes. She smiled a little sadly, and in her mind the tapestry gently swayed. Two small apparitions ran giggling up the stairs: two small exquisitely rich burkas disappearing along the first floor landing. Childish squeals of mischief and joy left in the air.......<br /><br />&ldquo;Move to seaward, you accused of Allah! Move!&rdquo;<br /><br />Her thoughts were clawed back to the dhow, the captain crashing the tiller over to avoid another boat on the crowded harbour. The woman instinctively ducked her head to avoid the heavy boom as it swung over her, the rusty cockerels squawked their raucous indignation, their heads straining through the latticework, relentless. <br /><br />The collision avoided, the dhow continued on its way. The cacophony dying down to the occasional command by the captain or the cry of a seagull.</p>
<p>The woman's thoughts returned to Beit-al-Ajaib</p>
<p>&nbsp; &hellip;&hellip;&hellip;&hellip;. laughing and giggling, girls of seven or eight. A door on the first floor slammed and all sounds of them disappeared. Silence. The woman smiled. She could see herself, a young woman, dressed plainly, unselfconsciously, her sexuality tantalisingly just out of reach, hidden beneath the thin veil of her clothing. She remembered standing alone in the foyer, looking around, perplexed. Asim came through a door to the left of the tapestry.<br /><br />&ldquo;Salaam.&rdquo;<br /><br />The woman started and looked around. Then, realising, was cold again. Alone again. Alone, rocking to and fro to the rythm of the sea. Alone, beside a rough-hewn coffin.<br /><br /></p>
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<p>People in the prefectures attach great importance to the Winter Solstice.</p>
<p>For several days previously, friends and realtives present gifts of food to one another. The streets are crowded with people carrying baskets and boxes that are generally called '<em>winter solstice trays</em>'. The night before is called Winter Solstice Eve. On that night families invite guests for food and drinks. This dinner is called the Festival Banquet. Married women who are staying with parents must return to their husbands. Families, rich and poor alike, buy food to offer to their ancestors. The ceremonies and customs are more splendid than those of ordinary festivals.</p>
<p>Thus, the saying is, "The Winter Solstice is as important as New Year".</p>
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<p>The origins of this festival can be traced back to the yin and yang philosophy of balance and harmony in the cosmos. After this celebration, there will be days with longer daylight hours and therefore an increase in positive energy flowing in. The philosophical significance of this is symbolized by the I Ching hexagram f&ugrave; (復, "Returning").<br /><br /><span class="full-image-float-left ssNonEditable"><span><img style="width: 200px;" src="http://kaixin.com.au/storage/Tangyuan.JPG?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1312688799584" alt="" /></span></span>Traditionally, the Dongzhi Festival is also a time for the family to get together. One activity that occurs during these get togethers (especially in the southern parts of China and in Chinese communities overseas) is the making and eating of <a href="http://kaixin.com.au/chinese-home-cooking/2009/2/7/tang-yuan.html" target="_blank">tangyuan</a> (湯圓) or balls of glutinuous rice, which symbolize reunion. Tangyuan are made of glutinuous rice flour and sometimes brightly coloured. Each family member receives at least one large tangyuan in addition to several small ones. The flour balls may be plain or stuffed. They are cooked in a sweet soup or savoury broth with both the ball and the soup/broth served in one bowl. It is also often served with a mildly alcoholic unfiltered rice wine containing whole grains of glutinous rice (and often also Sweet Osmanthus flowers), called jiuniang.<br /><br /><span class="full-image-float-left ssNonEditable"><span><img style="width: 150px;" src="http://kaixin.com.au/storage/dumpling.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1312688842115" alt="" /></span></span>In northern China, people typically eat <a href="http://kaixin.com.au/chinese-home-cooking/2008/9/11/dumpling-jiao-zi.html" target="_blank">dumplings</a> on Dongzhi. It is said to have originated from Zhang Zhongjing in the Han Dynasty. On one cold winter day, he saw the poor suffering from chilblains on their ears. Feeling sympathetic, he ordered his apprentices to make dumplings with lamb and other ingredients, and distribute them among the poor to keep them warm, to keep their ears from getting chilblains. Since the dumplings were shaped like ears, Zhang named the dish "q&ugrave;h&aacute;n jiāoěr tāng" (祛寒嬌耳湯) or dumpling soup that expels the cold. From that time on, it has been a tradition to eat dumplings on the day of Dongzhi.</p>
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<p>Winter solstice falls on December 22 or 23 (solar calendar) every year. It is the day when the Northern Hemisphere has the shortest daytime and longest nighttime in the whole year. After winter solstice, the daytime will grow increasingly longer. Early in the Spring and Autumn Period over 2500 years ago, winter solstice was celebrated by the Chinese by observing the sun with a gnomon shadow template. It is the earliest among the 24 solar terms being stipulated. After winter solstice, the coldest period comes to the northern part of the globe, which is commonly called "JinJiu", suggesting that once winter solstice comes, we will meet the coldest time ahead.</p>
<p><br />Commonly known as "Potlatch", "Changzhi Festival" and "Yasui", etc., winter solstice is a rather big festival attached with great importance by the Chinese people, thus the saying "Winter solstice is as important as the Spring Festival". It is a custom to celebrate the arrival of winter solstice, which is regarded as worthy since it is the beginning of a solar term circulation. Also it is an auspicious day deserving celebration.</p>
<p>It is said that winter solstice was considered as New Year's Day in the Zhou Dynasty. Such a saying is still going round in the south of the Yangtze River that "People will be one year older after finishing the winter solstice dinner", which is commonly called "tiansui" (growing older). In the Tang and Song Dynasties, it was on winter solstice that heaven and ancestor worship was performed. On this day, the emperor would hold a solemn heaven worship ceremony in the suburbs and common people would offer sacrifice to their late parents and ancestors.</p>
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<p><em>The ancient dhow stirred in the soft morning breeze. Like a sleepy lion, it began to move through the water, snuffling about the other boats on the harbour; some scurrying, some at anchor, some darting before a brief gust of wind. The lateen sails a bustling panorama of blood-red and sun-bleached white.<br /><br />Aft, the woman's eyes searched the skyline, drinking in the architecture of Stone Town, the heart of Zanzibar; its jagged, cluttered silhouette so familiar, so much a part of her soul.<br /><br />Abruptly, her eyes ceased their restless searching, jagged by an invisible hook, transfixed by the grand buildings on the northern shore, Beit-al-Ajaib, the House of Wonders, Palace to the great Sultan of Zanzibar. The distinctive architecture captured in the tropical light: coconut white outlined by contrasting shadow plays of pepper black.<br /><br />A smile, ever so slight, started to play on the edge of her mouth then disappeared. A memory that should have been fond instantly turned to sharp unbearable pain. Her eyes hardened and moved on.<br /><br />Without warning the captain threw the rudder over. Stumbling, the woman barked her shin on a wooden box, a rough-hewn coffin. She recoiled, knocking over an untidy stack of cane baskets. Imprisoned in the baskets, rusty cockerels, their scruffy heads straining through the latticework, snapped at her, cried out to her; their raucous din overwhelming her, drowning her.<br /><br />Dimly, through the fog of noise, the strident swearing of the sailors in Kiswahili seeped into her conscious. Understanding, she smiled mirthlessly.<br /><br />The coffin had been carelessly stowed, a chore, rather than a labour of respect or love.</em></p>
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<p>&ldquo;Hello, who are you? I am Oliver, is Edward at home?&rdquo;<br /><br />The words were spoken by a tall, impeccably dressed young man as he rushed into Edward&rsquo;s flat shaking off surplus water and calling for whisky while shoving his umbrella into a stand. It was a blustery, grey, bitterly cold February afternoon in the heart of London. He brushed a curl of soft auburn hair from his forehead and smiled charmingly.<br /><br />Susan laughed, her hazel eyes dancing with the exhilaration of the new. &ldquo;Yes, he is having a bath. I think he is trying to get warm. I&rsquo;m Susan, Susan Carey, his sister.&rdquo;<br /><br />&ldquo;Ahhh yes, from Australia. How do you do?&rdquo; said Sir Oliver, smiling broadly and offering his hand. He noticed the laughter in her eyes, and the depth, particularly the depth, intensified by jade flecks that made them striking and alluring. &ldquo;So, you have arrived, good trip I trust.&rdquo;<br /><br />&ldquo;I am very well thank you, and yes, it was a good trip,&rdquo; replied Susan.<br /><br />He laughed and glanced at the sitting room, &ldquo;whisky?&rdquo;<br /><br />&ldquo;Oh, I&rsquo;m sorry, please come in&hellip;&hellip;.. that was silly of me, after all, it is your flat.&rdquo;<br /><br />Oliver smiled and gestured for Susan to lead the way. He followed her into the room, and after helping himself to a generous portion of whisky, walked over to the fire.<br /><br />Shortly after, Edward, wrapped in a huge ruby-coloured dressing gown and wiping soap from his ear strode into the room. He was of similar age to Oliver, late twenties, well built, if slightly podgy, with dark auburn hair and a full moustache. Susan looked up and smiled to herself, she could see now where he had picked up some of his new mannerisms.<br /><br />&ldquo;Thought I could hear voices. I see you two have met, no need for introductions then.&rdquo; <br /><br />As he was speaking, Edward walked to the side table and grabbed a whisky decanter by the neck. He glanced at Oliver who nodded. A long finger snaked into one of the tumblers followed by the distinctive clink of crystal. He swept the decanter off the table and carried it to where Oliver was sitting. After pouring the whisky, he sank into a lounge chair and sipped from his glass, enjoying the warm glow as it spread through his body.<br /><br />Suddenly he sat up exclaiming, &ldquo;Sorry sis, would you like something to drink?&rdquo;<br /><br />&ldquo;Kind of you to remember, but no thank you, and yes, Oliver has already inquired.&rdquo;<br /><br />Edward nodded and sank back into his lounge chair.<br /><br />They chatted, tentatively at first, getting to know one another. Edward had not seen Susan for two years and was unsure how his sister would take his new relationship. Oliver was intrigued by Susan. An attractive, self-assured young lady of high intelligence with a degree was a rare find. And, as fate would have it, she was also a trained and experienced teacher. He suggested a picnic at Oxford, which was met with ready acquiescence. Arrangements were made for the following Sunday.<br /><br />&ldquo;I&rsquo;ll see if the Rolls is available,&rdquo; mused Oliver. &ldquo;Must ring father, haven&rsquo;t spoken to him in ages.&rdquo;<br /><br />Oliver, Sir Oliver Marchmaine, was an unaffected young man of intense intelligence who saw life as a great adventure to be lived to the full. He was also unyieldingly loyal to his country, England, which is why he had joined Military Intelligence on leaving Oxford.<br /><br />It was 1910 and Europe was stirring. It was a time full of interest, intrigue and danger. The European chessboard was becoming increasingly complex, the moves more subtle. A time when an unexpected move or feint could have profound consequences.</p>
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<p>Regaining her balance, the woman&rsquo;s eyes were drawn, hesitantly at first, resisting back to Beit-al-Ajaib. She wondered if it was still the same. Still the same centre of power and intrigue that had been so much a part of her life all those years before; that had defined her life.<br /><br />She remembered those first few moments, remembered standing in the foyer of the palace, .&hellip;&hellip;&hellip;&hellip; remembered the breathtakingly beautiful Persian tapestry ........<br /><br />The sea breeze stirred her clothes. She smiled a little sadly, and in her mind the tapestry gently swayed. Two small apparitions ran giggling up the stairs: two small exquisitely rich burkas disappearing along the first floor landing. Childish squeals of mischief and joy left in the air.......<br /><br />&ldquo;Move to seaward, you accused of Allah! Move!&rdquo;<br /><br />Her thoughts were clawed back to the dhow, the captain crashing the tiller over to avoid another boat on the crowded harbour. The woman instinctively ducked her head to avoid the heavy boom as it swung over her, the rusty cockerels squawked their raucous indignation, their heads straining through the latticework, relentless. <br /><br />The collision avoided, the dhow continued on its way. The cacophony dying down to the occasional command by the captain or the cry of a seagull.</p>
<p>The woman's thoughts returned to Beit-al-Ajaib</p>
<p>&nbsp; &hellip;&hellip;&hellip;&hellip;. laughing and giggling, girls of seven or eight. A door on the first floor slammed and all sounds of them disappeared. Silence. The woman smiled. She could see herself, a young woman, dressed plainly, unselfconsciously, her sexuality tantalisingly just out of reach, hidden beneath the thin veil of her clothing. She remembered standing alone in the foyer, looking around, perplexed. Asim came through a door to the left of the tapestry.<br /><br />&ldquo;Salaam.&rdquo;<br /><br />The woman started and looked around. Then, realising, was cold again. Alone again. Alone, rocking to and fro to the rythm of the sea. Alone, beside a rough-hewn coffin.<br /><br /></p>
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<p>On that day, parents expect their married daughters to return home to eat the flower cakes. If the daughter cannot come, the mother will complain, the daughter is filled with sadness, and the younger sister will weep because she really wants to enjoy this rare chance to see her sister. Thus, this is also called Daughter's Day</p>
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<p>Another Folk Tale: It is said long ago there appeared a devil of plague in the Ruhe River. People lay down and died wherever it came up. A boy named Heng Jing swore to help his neighbors and fellow people to get rid of it. He visited many famous mountains to seek a powerful master. Finally an old Taoist took him in and taught him how to defeat the devil. Heng Jing put his whole heart into study and practice. One day, the Taoist called him up and said, 'Heng Jing, tomorrow is the 9th day of September and the devil will reappear. It is time for you to go home and stop the devil.' The master also gave him a pack of leaves of Cornus and a jar of liquor soaked with chrysanthemums. Riding a crane, Heng Jing <span class="full-image-float-left ssNonEditable"><span><img src="http://kaixin.com.au/storage/cornel.JPG?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1312685974256" alt="" /></span></span>went a great distance back home in a day. As instructed by his master, he told his fellow villagers to climb up the nearby mountain with a Cornus leaf pinned on their clothes and a glass of chrysanthemum liquor in hand. When the devil of plague came up from under the water, it got dizzy by the scent of Cornus and chrysanthemums. Heng Jing fought with his master's sword and killed the devil in a few rounds. People held parties, drank chrysanthemum liquor to celebrate it. And the next year, the custom of mountain climbing became popular among the villagers.</p>
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<p><span class="full-image-float-left ssNonEditable"><span><img style="width: 200px;" src="http://kaixin.com.au/storage/double-ninth-festival-1.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1312683686355" alt="" /></span></span>In 1966, the Republic of China (Taiwan) dedicated the holiday as "Senior Citizens' Day", underscoring one custom as it is observed in China, where the festival is also an opportunity to care for and appreciate the elderly.<br /><br />Double Ninth may have originated as a day to drive away danger, but like the Chinese New Year, over time it became a day of celebration. In contemporary times it is an occasion for hiking and chrysanthemum appreciation. Stores sell rice cakes (糕 "gāo", a homophone for height 高) inserted with mini colorful flags to represent zhuyu. Most people drink chrysanthemum tea, while a few strict traditionalists drink homemade chrysanthemum wine. Children in school learn poems about chrysanthemums, and many localities host a chrysanthemum exhibit. Mountain climbing races are also popular; winners get to wear a wreath made of zhuyu.</p>
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<p><br /><strong>"Double Ninth, Missing My Shandong Brothers" &mdash; Wang Wei (王維), Tang Dynasty</strong><br /><br />&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 九月九日憶山東兄弟<br /><br />&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; jiǔ yu&egrave; jiǔ r&igrave; y&igrave; shān dōng xiōng d&igrave;<br /><br />&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 獨在異鄉為異客,<br /><br />&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; d&uacute; z&agrave;i y&igrave; xiāng w&eacute;i y&igrave; k&egrave;<br /><br />&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 每逢佳節倍思親.<br /><br />&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; měi f&eacute;ng jiā ji&eacute; b&egrave;i sī qīn<br /><br />&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 遙知兄弟登高處,<br /><br />&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; y&aacute;o zhī xiōng d&igrave; dēng gāo ch&ugrave;<br /><br />&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 遍插茱萸少一人.<br /><br />&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; bi&agrave;n chā zhū y&uacute; shǎo yī r&eacute;n<br />&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; <br /><br />English:<br /><br />&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; As a lonely stranger in a strange land,<br />&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; At every holiday my homesickness increases.<br />&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Far away, I know my brothers have reached the peak;<br />&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; They are planting flowers, but one is not present.</p>
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<p>&nbsp;* In Ancient China odd numbers were regarded as positive numbers. September the 9th (9/9) contains two positive numbers, thus the day is named<em> chong yang</em>, or double positive.</p>
<p>** It is said that a man in the Eastern Han Dynasty named Huan Jing acknowledged the immortal Fei Chang fang as his teacher. One day Fei warned Huan Jing that there would be a major disaster on September 9th, but if he wore cornel leaves around his arm, climbed a mountain and drank chrysanthemum wine the disaster could be averted. Huan Jing did these things: He took his family up a mountain and all was well. When he returned home in the evening he found all his livestock had died mysteriously. As he escaped this fate, people celebrate the day with these activities.</p>
<p>*** Pleasure Haunts, refer to brothels. Rich people rented brothels as places for banquets, gatherings and business.</p>
<p>****<em>hua gao</em> or <em>chong yang gao</em> is eaten because the word for cake <em>gao</em> is the same as the word for high/tall, <em>gao</em>.</p>
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<p style="text-align: center;"><em><span style="font-size: 120%;"> <span style="color: #757676;">'A maharaja&rsquo;s ruby cast on a Persian carpet by the blackest of hands'</span> </span></em></p>
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<p><em>The ancient dhow stirred in the soft morning breeze. Like a sleepy lion, it began to move through the water, snuffling about the other boats on the harbour; some scurrying, some at anchor, some darting before a brief gust of wind. The lateen sails a bustling panorama of blood-red and sun-bleached white.<br /><br />Aft, the woman's eyes searched the skyline, drinking in the architecture of Stone Town, the heart of Zanzibar; its jagged, cluttered silhouette so familiar, so much a part of her soul.<br /><br />Abruptly, her eyes ceased their restless searching, jagged by an invisible hook, transfixed by the grand buildings on the northern shore, Beit-al-Ajaib, the House of Wonders, Palace to the great Sultan of Zanzibar. The distinctive architecture captured in the tropical light: coconut white outlined by contrasting shadow plays of pepper black.<br /><br />A smile, ever so slight, started to play on the edge of her mouth then disappeared. A memory that should have been fond instantly turned to sharp unbearable pain. Her eyes hardened and moved on.<br /><br />Without warning the captain threw the rudder over. Stumbling, the woman barked her shin on a wooden box, a rough-hewn coffin. She recoiled, knocking over an untidy stack of cane baskets. Imprisoned in the baskets, rusty cockerels, their scruffy heads straining through the latticework, snapped at her, cried out to her; their raucous din overwhelming her, drowning her.<br /><br />Dimly, through the fog of noise, the strident swearing of the sailors in Kiswahili seeped into her conscious. Understanding, she smiled mirthlessly.<br /><br />The coffin had been carelessly stowed, a chore, rather than a labour of respect or love.</em></p>
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<p>&ldquo;Hello, who are you? I am Oliver, is Edward at home?&rdquo;<br /><br />The words were spoken by a tall, impeccably dressed young man as he rushed into Edward&rsquo;s flat shaking off surplus water and calling for whisky while shoving his umbrella into a stand. It was a blustery, grey, bitterly cold February afternoon in the heart of London. He brushed a curl of soft auburn hair from his forehead and smiled charmingly.<br /><br />Susan laughed, her hazel eyes dancing with the exhilaration of the new. &ldquo;Yes, he is having a bath. I think he is trying to get warm. I&rsquo;m Susan, Susan Carey, his sister.&rdquo;<br /><br />&ldquo;Ahhh yes, from Australia. How do you do?&rdquo; said Sir Oliver, smiling broadly and offering his hand. He noticed the laughter in her eyes, and the depth, particularly the depth, intensified by jade flecks that made them striking and alluring. &ldquo;So, you have arrived, good trip I trust.&rdquo;<br /><br />&ldquo;I am very well thank you, and yes, it was a good trip,&rdquo; replied Susan.<br /><br />He laughed and glanced at the sitting room, &ldquo;whisky?&rdquo;<br /><br />&ldquo;Oh, I&rsquo;m sorry, please come in&hellip;&hellip;.. that was silly of me, after all, it is your flat.&rdquo;<br /><br />Oliver smiled and gestured for Susan to lead the way. He followed her into the room, and after helping himself to a generous portion of whisky, walked over to the fire.<br /><br />Shortly after, Edward, wrapped in a huge ruby-coloured dressing gown and wiping soap from his ear strode into the room. He was of similar age to Oliver, late twenties, well built, if slightly podgy, with dark auburn hair and a full moustache. Susan looked up and smiled to herself, she could see now where he had picked up some of his new mannerisms.<br /><br />&ldquo;Thought I could hear voices. I see you two have met, no need for introductions then.&rdquo; <br /><br />As he was speaking, Edward walked to the side table and grabbed a whisky decanter by the neck. He glanced at Oliver who nodded. A long finger snaked into one of the tumblers followed by the distinctive clink of crystal. He swept the decanter off the table and carried it to where Oliver was sitting. After pouring the whisky, he sank into a lounge chair and sipped from his glass, enjoying the warm glow as it spread through his body.<br /><br />Suddenly he sat up exclaiming, &ldquo;Sorry sis, would you like something to drink?&rdquo;<br /><br />&ldquo;Kind of you to remember, but no thank you, and yes, Oliver has already inquired.&rdquo;<br /><br />Edward nodded and sank back into his lounge chair.<br /><br />They chatted, tentatively at first, getting to know one another. Edward had not seen Susan for two years and was unsure how his sister would take his new relationship. Oliver was intrigued by Susan. An attractive, self-assured young lady of high intelligence with a degree was a rare find. And, as fate would have it, she was also a trained and experienced teacher. He suggested a picnic at Oxford, which was met with ready acquiescence. Arrangements were made for the following Sunday.<br /><br />&ldquo;I&rsquo;ll see if the Rolls is available,&rdquo; mused Oliver. &ldquo;Must ring father, haven&rsquo;t spoken to him in ages.&rdquo;<br /><br />Oliver, Sir Oliver Marchmaine, was an unaffected young man of intense intelligence who saw life as a great adventure to be lived to the full. He was also unyieldingly loyal to his country, England, which is why he had joined Military Intelligence on leaving Oxford.<br /><br />It was 1910 and Europe was stirring. It was a time full of interest, intrigue and danger. The European chessboard was becoming increasingly complex, the moves more subtle. A time when an unexpected move or feint could have profound consequences.</p>
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<p>Regaining her balance, the woman&rsquo;s eyes were drawn, hesitantly at first, resisting back to Beit-al-Ajaib. She wondered if it was still the same. Still the same centre of power and intrigue that had been so much a part of her life all those years before; that had defined her life.<br /><br />She remembered those first few moments, remembered standing in the foyer of the palace, .&hellip;&hellip;&hellip;&hellip; remembered the breathtakingly beautiful Persian tapestry ........<br /><br />The sea breeze stirred her clothes. She smiled a little sadly, and in her mind the tapestry gently swayed. Two small apparitions ran giggling up the stairs: two small exquisitely rich burkas disappearing along the first floor landing. Childish squeals of mischief and joy left in the air.......<br /><br />&ldquo;Move to seaward, you accused of Allah! Move!&rdquo;<br /><br />Her thoughts were clawed back to the dhow, the captain crashing the tiller over to avoid another boat on the crowded harbour. The woman instinctively ducked her head to avoid the heavy boom as it swung over her, the rusty cockerels squawked their raucous indignation, their heads straining through the latticework, relentless. <br /><br />The collision avoided, the dhow continued on its way. The cacophony dying down to the occasional command by the captain or the cry of a seagull.</p>
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